For most people in the dating pool, they’ll tell you that it’s brutal. For OnlyFans creators, it’s an even rougher playing field, as most potential partners find themselves intimidated by the idea of being with someone who creates adult content for a living. For Alicia Davis—a successful OnlyFans creator—she doesn’t mind that it’s difficult for the men she dates to make the cut; she’d rather dodge a bullet than settle for a relationship that isn’t going to be good for her in the long run.
Alicia Davis wasn’t always a successful OnlyFans creator. Once upon a time, she worked in emergency services and made a fraction of what she now brings in via OnlyFans. How much less was she making? Well, according to Davis, now that she’s a full-time OnlyFans creator, she’s making five times more than she did in emergency services. She’s worked hard to achieve financial independence, and she’s not about to let some guy mess that up for her. She’s single, perfectly happy that way, and loves having total control over her finances without having to factor in a partner.
Why is Alicia Davis so outspoken about being happy to remain single? Well, many successful OnlyFans creators run into a problem called “fake support”—where potential partners (usually men) claim they’re totally fine with their career as a content creator and the high payout that frequently comes with it. Then the rug gets pulled out from under them, and the insecurities rear their ugly heads. Suddenly, these partners try to slowly take control of their partner’s content-creating career—while still happily enjoying the financial perks that come with a high subscriber count. The money, attention, and creative/financial freedom that so many successful OnlyFans creators enjoy combine to form a perfect storm for insecure partners. Rather than do the emotional work to sort out their insecurities, most of those partners end up bailing on the relationship, leaving the content creator high and dry—emotionally, anyway. Financially, they’re just fine.
While other creators wind up in the never-ending cycle of dating hell, trying to find a partner who isn’t intimidated by their career or financial success, Alicia Davis is happy to stay single. She doesn’t need a romantic partner to feel fulfilled—she’s perfectly happy doing life on her own. If a guy comes along who fits into the life she’s already built and is actually supportive instead of just cosplaying a supportive boyfriend long enough to reel her in? Cool. But she’s not losing sleep waiting for the perfect person to come along and sweep her off her feet. Davis is a firm believer that love should happen naturally—no aggressive chasing or success-compromising necessary.
As far as Alicia Davis is concerned, she’s a real catch who knows the value she could bring to a potential relationship. She’s the living embodiment of “a real catch is someone who doesn’t need to be caught.” We’d say we wish Alicia luck in the dating scene, but honestly? You do you, Alicia. We’re here for it.
